How to Make the Most of Being Single in Ramadan
If you’re currently single, here’s how you can make the most of this blessed month and use it as a stepping stone towards finding a righteous spouse.
Ramadan is a time of deep spiritual reflection, self-improvement, and drawing closer to Allah. While many see it as a time of togetherness with family and loved ones, being single during Ramadan can also be a period of immense personal growth. Rather than feeling lonely or longing for companionship, this is an opportunity to focus on self-betterment, strengthen your connection with Allah, and prepare yourself for the future—perhaps even for marriage.
Strengthen Your Relationship with Allah
Before seeking a life partner, it’s essential to build your relationship with Allah. Ramadan provides the perfect atmosphere to increase your iman (faith), seek forgiveness, and purify your intentions.
The Prophet (Peace Be Upon Him) said: “A woman may be married for four things: her wealth, her lineage, her beauty, and her religion. So marry the religious woman, lest you be ruined.”
For both men and women, strengthening your faith ensures that when you do find a spouse, your relationship is based on sincerity and a shared commitment to Islam.
Use This Time for Self-Development
Being single allows you to focus entirely on self-improvement. Ramadan is an ideal time to set personal and spiritual goals, whether it’s memorising more Qur’an, learning Arabic, or developing a new skill. A productive singlehood will prepare you for marriage in a way that strengthens both you and your future partner.
Ask yourself:
- Am I working towards becoming a better Muslim?
- Do I have the patience, kindness, and understanding needed for a strong marriage?
- How can I develop my character to be a good spouse in the future?
- Use time for self reflection and by answering these questions you can strengthen your faith and better yourself.
Make Dua for a Righteous Spouse
Dua is one of the most powerful tools we have, and Ramadan is the best time to make sincere supplications. The Prophet (Peace Be Upon Him) said: “Dua is worship.” (Tirmidhi)
If you’re seeking marriage, use this time to ask Allah for a spouse who will bring you closer to Him. Pray during the last third of the night, make dua during iftar, and seek the blessed moments of Laylatul Qadr to ask for a righteous partner.
Here’s a beautiful dua you can say: “Our Lord, grant us from among our spouses and offspring comfort to our eyes and make us an example for the righteous.” (Qur’an 25:74)
Engage in Charity and Community Work
Marriage is about giving, patience, and compassion. Practising these traits in your daily life will prepare you for a future relationship. Engaging in acts of charity, whether by feeding the fasting, donating to those in need, or helping in your local masjid, will develop a generous and selfless heart.
The Prophet (Peace Be Upon Him) said: “The believer’s shade on the Day of Resurrection will be his charity.” (Tirmidhi)
Connect with Other Muslims in a Halal Way
This is where Vidnik can help. Vidnik is a Muslim marriage matchmaking app designed for those seeking a halal and meaningful connection. With Vidnik, you can find like-minded Muslims who prioritise faith, commitment, and shared values. Unlike casual dating apps, Vidnik ensures that the process remains respectful, with the ultimate goal being marriage.
If you’re serious about finding a spouse, use this Ramadan to reflect on the qualities you seek in a partner, and take steps towards meeting someone who shares your vision for a faith-centred marriage.
Seek Advice and Prepare for Marriage
The Prophet (Peace Be Upon Him) advised: “When someone whose religion and character you are pleased with comes to you (for marriage), then marry him.” (Tirmidhi)
This Hadith reminds us that character and deen should be our top priorities when choosing a spouse. Use this time to refine your understanding of what makes a marriage work and prepare yourself to be the best partner you can be.
