Significance Behind Muslim Wedding Jewellery
Why do Muslim men wear silver rings and why is gold reserved for the girls, understanding the roles of precious metals in marriage and Islam.
Jewellery has always been more than just adornment. In many traditions, it carries emotional, cultural, and spiritual significance, especially in the context of marriage. In the Muslim community, this symbolism has unique standing, shaped by both Islamic teachings and cultural customs across the globe.
One particularly intriguing tradition is the custom of Muslim men wearing silver rings, while gold is reserved for women, especially when it comes to wedding jewellery. But what lies behind this distinction? Is it purely cultural, or is there deeper religious guidance?
What Does Islam Say?
Islam is a religion that places emphasis on modesty, simplicity, and intention. When it comes to personal items like jewellery, there are clear guidelines especially regarding men and women.
Men and Gold Jewellery
It is widely accepted among scholars that Muslim men are not permitted to wear gold jewellery, including gold rings. This ruling is based on several authentic hadiths.
In one such hadith from Sahih Muslim, the Prophet PBUH said:
“Gold and silk have been made lawful for the females of my nation, and unlawful for the males.” — Sahih Muslim, 2069
This is not just a cultural opinion but a clear religious directive. The reason behind this prohibition is rooted in Islamic values. Gold, often associated with extravagance and display, is seen as contrary to the qualities of humility and modesty that are especially encouraged in men. It serves as a reminder to live simply and focus on inner values rather than outward appearances.
Silver
While gold is forbidden, silver is not only allowed but encouraged for Muslim men, particularly in the form of a ring. The Prophet Muhammad PBUH himself wore a silver ring, which he used as a seal. Many of his companions followed this practice, making it a beloved tradition.
Silver, in contrast to gold, is seen as more modest and accessible. It maintains the balance between personal style and humility, allowing men to wear a symbol of marriage or identity without stepping outside the bounds of Islamic teachings.
Gold
While gold is off-limits for men, it is entirely permissible for women in Islam and is often given as a gift to them.
It is associated as a symbol of beauty, femininity, and celebration. It’s often worn by women at weddings, on Eid, and during other joyful occasions. The Prophet PBUH never prohibited women from wearing gold or silk. In fact, these items are described in many hadiths as rewards in this life and the hereafter for believing women.
In Sunan Abi Dawood, a woman once asked the Prophet PBUH whether gold was permitted for her, to which he responded:
“That is what you wear.” — Sunan Abi Dawood, 4057
This simple exchange highlights Islam’s acknowledgment of a woman’s natural desire to adorn herself, especially on special occasions like her wedding day.
Gold jewellery is often an essential part of a Muslim woman’s mahr (marriage gift), and it's a traditional gift from both her family and her in-laws. It’s not uncommon in South Asian, Arab, and African cultures for brides to be adorned in beautiful gold necklaces, bangles, earrings, and of course, a gold wedding ring.
Cultural Variations Across the Muslim World
While the religious rulings are universal, cultural interpretations and practices vary depending on region and heritage.
In South Asian communities, gold plays a central role in weddings. It is considered a form of wealth and security for the bride and a symbol of her family’s love and support. Wedding ceremonies often involve the bride receiving elaborate gold sets, some passed down through generations.
In Middle Eastern and North African cultures, men often wear silver rings featuring natural stones like onyx, agate, or turquoise. These rings sometimes include Islamic inscriptions or calligraphy, linking personal style to faith.
Even among Western Muslims, the distinction holds strong, though many couples find modern ways to reflect both tradition and personal taste. Some opt for platinum or titanium wedding bands, which are permissible for men and offer a contemporary alternative to gold.
Jewellery and the Journey to Marriage
Whether it’s the silver ring of a groom or the gold jewellery gifted to a bride, these items are more than just fashion statements. They symbolise intention, commitment, and joy, the essence of marriage itself in Islam.
But jewellery comes later. First, there’s the journey to finding the right partner who matches based on values, ethics, interests and faith.
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